Why Cutting Cords is NOT a good idea!

Last night I got a significant download of information regarding energy. One part that was very interesting related to cutting cords. Many people cut cords, to severe the connection on an energetic level to an event of person, but I have never liked it, it always felt wrong. Now I know why!

Cutting cords is NOT the way to go about this! Neither can you release the energy that attaches you to others, or to events. The release happens, but at the other end. You don’t release yourself from the energy, you release the energy from you. There is a significant difference and I will try and explain.

I will use a past relationship as an example. Any relationship (or event) is not a one way flow of energy, but a two way dialogue, like a stream of data. It forms a connection between two people and the energy of both tends to mingle together creating a new set of data or energy that is the couple energy instead of two separate people. When a relationship ends and people go their own way, some of their energy remains locked into that couple energy, and so locked into the other person. You leave part of yourself behind. This can be seen in the negative feelings that occur on breaking up.

Now, cutting the cords at this point causes a problem. You not only cut off the other persons energy, you also cut off some of your own! And at the same time you hang onto energy that doesn’t belong to you! Do you see? Perhaps when humanity first learnt about cutting cords, they knew these things, and perhaps the information has been forgotten or simplified over time. But the way most people go about doing this does not work on the level it needs to.

Instead what needs to be done is more akin to soul retrieval. We need to withdraw our energy from the couple entity and so from the other person, bringing it back to us, allowing for us to feel brighter, lighter, and fulfilled. This is empowering! This is just what you need when separating from someone. You need your energy back!

Of course we perhaps should not give away quite so much of ourselves in the first place. Last night I tried following the instructions I received to take back some energy from an area of conflict with my partner. I felt bigger, stronger, I could see clearly where my boundaries lie and I could state them without being judgemental, but instead with compassion for us both.

It was also shown to me how this benefits the other person. When you withdraw your energy, back into you, you stop the communication of data. Their own data stream, finding nothing to communicate with, migrates back to them. It doesn’t get cut off mid-sentence. So while helping yourself, you automatically help the other too. This is forgiveness from the energetic view point.

This is what letting go means, it means bringing your energy home from where ever you have left it, detaching at the other end by not being around anymore to continue the conversation.

The method I have been shown is simple, fast and brings amazing cognitive shifts along with it. I am now using it with clients (first time today and it did exactly what it was meant to do!). If you would like to learn this method for yourself, I am going to set up a workshop on Facebook, to teach you this method, and to help you as you bring back your energy from any time, place or space, to sit back once more in your own energy field, where it belongs! I cannot tell you how amazing it feels to take a couple of minutes to retrieve a boat load of energy! And you can apply this in all areas of your life, including past life energy retrieval.

When you start thinking about all the places you have left energy, even if they were just ideas or thought processes, you can use this method in so many ways. And as you fill your energetic cup back up, and become stronger, life changes, YOU CHANGE! In fact you radiate energy and power and become more attractive to people and circumstances. You know that saying, BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD? I am going to show you how!

Happy Equinox!

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Kirsten Ivatts


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